[QUOTE=andrewfroboy]I feel your pain too, I’m making the same decision, but ultimately I decided that I can be happy without my job or as much financial security, but I can’t be happy without my girl. That is the real question to ask yourself, life is short and without risk there is no reward.[/QUOTE] I know exactly where you’re coming from. My motto is “life is for living, not for watching”. Being with the woman I love trumps the financial security; there are times when the heart should over-rule the head. And when hard times raise their ugly head, all I need to do is look over at the vision of beauty who is sharing my life and it somehow puts even the toughest moments into perspective. I wouldn’t swap her for all the tea in China!