Hi all, good site, very interesting. I am completely mystified after meeting a great Brazilian girl in Natal. Everything seems fine in one sense but not in many others, my gut feel tells me something isn't right...there seems to be a lot of inconsistencies in what she tells me. Maybe I am too cynical but there seems to be a sublte take take take. It is all well done and nicely handled, but instances like change doesn't come back when I give her money to pay for things, or items get borrowed but never come back. I sense a toughness more than normal, almost like us guys are commodities. At times I could almost think like she is or has been a working girl but I can't work out where the line is drawn. Maybe I am not used to things or maybe my gut feel is right. I just sense when I am out of sight, there's likely to be another one in the frame, unless I keep delivering. But when I don't, then she has options. Am I paranoic?

agree with tron. go with ur guts, for sure.

yeah trust your gut.

Never go with Guts because the very moment you go with your Gut feeling its usually when its most clouded and has the most insecurity inside it.

Inconsistencies like how she found her way to Natal (she is not from there), where and what she was doing before then. Some things might be lost in translation, but her recent history doesn't seem to be consistent. Statements about previous boyfriends, like there haven't been many and most seem foreign. One major concern is that her mobile ringer is never turned on, I've never heard her phone ring, but she checks it for calls or texts, always discretly. All the vibes I get are is that at one time or other she was "working" and although she now has a job, I sense that she is a part timer so to speak. But there again I don't know as I have no experience in Brazil. Make sense?