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Quote nesne2 Replybullet Posted: 18 September 2012 at 14:05
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So the plasticwear made in a dirty factory, all sealed in white paper is more sanitary than your hands after washing them?  Love the logic here!  It's not just Brazilians but a lot of Americans hold that view as well.
 
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But most Americans love to eat with thier hands. I'm proud to say I was never trained in "proper" dining etiquette. Perhaps it is because of our frontier culture roots but I don't think most people I know back home (semi-rural western US) would know what is considered "proper" with a fork and knife. You just use it as you see fit and as long as you are not doing anything too strange, such as holding it like a baby, nobody seems to notice.

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Quote Twirly Replybullet Posted: 18 September 2012 at 14:52
^^Proud of being a redneck.
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Quote mmaser Replybullet Posted: 18 September 2012 at 20:58
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So the plasticwear made in a dirty factory, all sealed in white paper is more sanitary than your hands after washing them?  Love the logic here!  It's not just Brazilians but a lot of Americans hold that view as well.
 
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But most Americans love to eat with thier hands. I'm proud to say I was never trained in "proper" dining etiquette. Perhaps it is because of our frontier culture roots but I don't think most people I know back home (semi-rural western US) would know what is considered "proper" with a fork and knife. You just use it as you see fit and as long as you are not doing anything too strange, such as holding it like a baby, nobody seems to notice.
 
I always hold the knife over my head as if I were about to stab someone..and then I cut my steak!  Could be I'm American hand have no manners or could be I'm simply interested in fellow diners expressions... win/win!
 
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Quote nesne2 Replybullet Posted: 18 September 2012 at 21:29
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So the plasticwear made in a dirty factory, all sealed in white paper is more sanitary than your hands after washing them?  Love the logic here!  It's not just Brazilians but a lot of Americans hold that view as well.
 
-Marc


But most Americans love to eat with thier hands. I'm proud to say I was never trained in "proper" dining etiquette. Perhaps it is because of our frontier culture roots but I don't think most people I know back home (semi-rural western US) would know what is considered "proper" with a fork and knife. You just use it as you see fit and as long as you are not doing anything too strange, such as holding it like a baby, nobody seems to notice.

 
I always hold the knife over my head as if I were about to stab someone..and then I cut my steak!  Could be I'm American hand have no manners or could be I'm simply interested in fellow diners expressions... win/win!
 
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That is a win/win! But as long as you are not doing anything too outlandish why does it really matter? I was always taught not to talk with my mouth full, for example, because that affects other people, but arbitrary rules about which hand to use a fork and knife with don't really matter. I´m just saying our frontier roots in the west of the US have, perhaps, made us a little more pragmatic and less formal, that hardly makes me a redneck.
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Quote DRichW Replybullet Posted: 18 September 2012 at 21:36
Wow, it seems there are quite a few people with views on this!

Can I just repeat what I said at the start of this thread i.e. I'm not some snob looking down on people who don't eat with the right 'etiquette'.

I'm just befuddled as to why people don't eat in the easiest way. Today I saw a woman trying to cut a piece of meat in a restaurant - knife in left hand, fork in right. Rather than cutting she tore it apart, and knocked food off her plate in the process.

As I said before, like trying to drink soup with a fork? It doesn't make any sense to me. But..each to his (or her) own...
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Quote DRichW Replybullet Posted: 18 September 2012 at 21:37
BTW @mmaser I love the idea of doing this!
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Quote mmaser Replybullet Posted: 18 September 2012 at 21:43
I've gotten some truely priceless expressions! 
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Quote jacare Replybullet Posted: 18 September 2012 at 22:11
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Today I saw a woman trying to cut a piece of meat in a restaurant - knife in left hand, fork in right. Rather than cutting she tore it apart, and knocked food off her plate in the process.

That's what happened to me last time I got one of those knives with all the teeth worn off.


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Quote jubilee6936 Replybullet Posted: 18 September 2012 at 23:22
Sometimes I use chopsticks, being part Japanese, but its a bugger trying to cut steak, takes forever. Clap
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Quote Labyras Replybullet Posted: 19 September 2012 at 03:01
Originally posted by Twirly

Up north they don't bother with knife and fork.
A spoon is sufficent to shuffle down feijão, rice, 2 bits of chicken and a kilo of the cat piss smelling coentro.


This, for sure.

Also, why close your mouth when you're enjoying some food? It seems to be etiquette to open your mouth to show as many people what exactly you are enjoying!
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