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Posted: 26 March 2012 at 23:59

Wow you are not sure of this relationship with a woman that is jealous, seems to have issues and now you want to bring your two boys into the mix?

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Ramon
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Posted: 27 March 2012 at 00:05

Originally posted by virtalist2000

Now my topic is being hijacked or derailed

Get use to it. rarely do you ever see the usual suspects stay on topic.

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frank4000
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Posted: 27 March 2012 at 02:41

Originally posted by virtalist2000

Por que novela? I'm still not getting any help yet. Are my the only one in this?

Yes you are because everyone else has gotten out of or avoided having relationships with such women. Look for someone unattached.

best regards

Meu Vizinho Jogou um semente no seu quintal

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virtalist2000
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Posted: 27 March 2012 at 06:25

The boys wont come in the mix that will be foolish. I think nfor me no point being really in a serious relationship because regardless it will always try to interfere with my lifestyle whenever it gets serious and commitment type. Not afraid of commitments though unless it starts to creep on other things. IF they came to Brazil we will be in another house. I will have to move out and take a new place.

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spongebob
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Posted: 29 March 2012 at 09:56

virtualist - EVERY topic on here gets "hijacked" and "derailed". Stop being so American and get your panties out of a wad. In Brazil, you gotta take whatever is thrown at you and smile. If not, you'll have a very difficult time and high blood pressure.

I hope your situation works out for you....

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Grads
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Posted: 29 March 2012 at 11:36

Jealous relationships are notorious in Brasil. People in triangles here go out of control and murder each other all the time...just watch the news for a while. Whether the danger is of figurative or literal potential in your case, it certainly sounds like this relationship is a "killer" in one way or another. Sometimes it is better to find happiness elsewhere that is less a complicated threat and more a rewarding experience. This is a change only you can make based upon your own wisdom and desire, or you can continually try to sort out a situation with many negative factors beyond your control.

Good luck.

Quem puxa os seus nao degenara.

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Megabyte
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Posted: 31 March 2012 at 23:26

Virtalist, I would be very happy if you would stop seeing every Brazilian woman as "money-hungry" or "emotional". The truth is, you have a jealous girlfriend and she has a jealous ex. Period. If you can't stand the pressure, find another woman. Talk to your girlfriend and say you're not cool with things as they are anymore. Yes, she will be emotional, she'll cry. Try the best you can so she'll not be too hurt, but move on. If you do like independent Brazilian women, there are many out there that are very successful and can pay their own bills. Those are the richer ones, tough, and can be quite stubborn when it comes to their own ideals.

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Megabyte
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Posted: 31 March 2012 at 23:31

Originally posted by Grads

Jealous relationships are notorious in Brasil. People in triangles here go out of control and murder each other all the time...just watch the news for a while. Whether the danger is of figurative or literal potential in your case, it certainly sounds like this relationship is a "killer" in one way or another. Sometimes it is better to find happiness elsewhere that is less a complicated threat and more a rewarding experience. This is a change only you can make based upon your own wisdom and desire, or you can continually try to sort out a situation with many negative factors beyond your control.

Good luck.

Don't exaggerate things. They're not as common as you think they are. Yes, some exes just can't "get over it" – specially if they were married for so long. However, if a relationship is over, things differ widely: some guys will want to be friends with their exes, others will never want to look at their face, others will want occasional sex. It really depends on the region, degree of education, age (older men tend to be more "jealous"), and so forth.

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Grads
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Posted: 01 April 2012 at 07:29

Megabyte

Quem puxa os seus nao degenara.

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virtalist2000
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Posted: 02 April 2012 at 18:27

Nice comments...

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