Gringoes.com: Europe meets Brasil

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Originally posted by gringo35

Many of you thinks what nationality i am.Well i am Polish.
Let's come back to main discussion.I have tried to contact her but my request faced resistance.It discourages me from next steps.In my personal opinion woman aged 35 knows  what she is doing to live life that suit her.
My big love and her love ( let's say love)were completely  different approach.How can you love person  and act destructive?I know from many gains that it can exist.Obsessed person treats self affection as normal but for other side it is not more than  being a prisoner in golden cage. fed with Shiny  but still "behind bars".
If this person went trough some trauma in past would she be acting like that?Knowing that your partner tries best i would to be guided and helped.I know life can be hard at some point but when you meet great partner you respect every hard work he or she does  to help.
   When you compare past and present time and obvious thing is life gets back on track you must have a thoughts telling you" this is it" unless you want have fun,no commitment still telling your partner that you love him.
   How long can you carry on like that?It is clear for me that she could experience bad trauma in past  so she is happy like that..What about future  meeting " boyfriends" and live  irresponsible?
Looks like she is very selfish person satisfying herself with rich sexual life and no serious plans?

Gringo35, you’re answering your own questions; she’s a thirty-five year old woman living a tortured life while pursuing her ‘dreams.’ And what are her likely dreams or ambitions? Whatever they are she seems to be obsessed with the only asset that she appears to rely on; her body and sexuality. This asset has already begun to depreciate by virtue of her age and this may be one reason why she fantasizes about joining a swingers club where a new partner is guaranteed. Perhaps there’s an element of panic in her reckless behavior? 
If we delve deeper into her problem we may find that the ‘trauma’ you suggest may be linked to an imagined lifestyle that would always have been unavailable to her because of her level of social intelligence, education, ethnic background, ethics, morality and personality; her ambition reaches higher than her level of competence.  
If, as you say, she is a beautiful woman, she would have been aware of this attraction since her teen years and, sadly, thought herself to be both desirable and suitable in every respect and not just the bedroom; a Cinderella waiting in vain for her Prince Charming. Who knows?

Topic: Europe meets Brasil
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