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cara0910
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Joined: 20 May 2011 Online Status: Offline Posts: 608 |
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You sure find a way to 'defeat' every one of my points. The fact is, there are very few recent immigrants in Brazil. If you have any doubt about that, check the numbers and compare them to the US and Europe. That's pretty clearly reflected in the culture. Even in cities, like Rio, people are a bit like yokels. It's ok. I just don't wanna socialize with yokels, so I left. SP is prob a bit more cosmopolitan, but it can't be by much. By the way, there are ethnic enclaves in the US too. We educated, tolerant people just find it interesting when someone speaks their language and flies their flag and eats their food. I guess that's not true in Brazil. You will be outcast! Edited by cara0910 - 05 April 2012 at 02:31 |
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Megabyte
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Joined: 31 March 2012 Online Status: Offline Posts: 438 |
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To the city? No. To the state? Yes. I went to Niterói and saw no flags. |
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jkennedy
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Joined: 04 November 2009 Location: United States Online Status: Offline Posts: 1059 |
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Odd, I'm not an American, and I've never been treated better by a group of people in the last decade. I find OTHER nationalities, including Canadians trying to goad me into being patriotic toward X country, but Americans in general have been far more open about it.
My wife used to do a lot of tutoring around here, and she stopped basically accepting any non-american families, they're just not pleasant to deal with. Brazilians seemed to have quite a few flags, and/or wearing the yellow/green clothing everywhere I went. If they weren't wearing some team colours that is! It's not bad being patriotic, it's bad being closed minded. But in reality, it's the same with the US citizens who think mexicans are "stealing" their jobs. It's just a constant stream of crap flowing at them, and eventually they believe it. |
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There is just so much to do in Brazil, and so little time to do it all! Planning my next Brazil Vacation and the countdown has started!
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Megabyte
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Yes, I believe you. I'm not saying that's false.
Well, if you don't want to socialize with them, how do you expect them to understand and accept you? Brazil is a social country, especially the state of Rio de Janeiro. If you don't socialize, you're out! I'm not a foreigner, but I'm not very social. Don't you think I pay a high price for that? The thing is, I didn't have a choice but to be born here. You had the choice to come here.
Again, this kind of thing happens because in the US, communities of immigrants are around to preserve their own culture. They feel really lost, so that's why they do that. So, people from different ethicies interact with each other, but they don't like to blend with each other. Here, the difference is that you must blend somehow. If you don't, people will see you as trying to be superior. Again, there are several colonies of descendents of German people in my state. They're beautiful places, so let me get a house there – oh, wait, I can't. They won't sell one to me because I'm "not German." Got the difference? People are afraid of something that already happened, so before they feel outcasted, they'll outcast you if they feel it's happening again. Edited by Megabyte - 05 April 2012 at 02:44 |
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Megabyte
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Oh, I see what you mean! They probably weren't wearing those colors because they wanted to "fly the flag." They use those colors because it's the color of the national soccer team!
Brazilians usually aren't nationalistic in the truest sense of the word, but oddly become quite so when "Brazil" and "soccer" mix. And don't touch teir teams. They are holier than their own religion! Just ask one if he'd die for his country. He'll probably say "no." Now ask him if he'd die for his soccer team, and see what answer you get! Parents even assign their own teams to their kids, and they are more likely to convert to another religion than to change their soccer team. By the way, I don't like soccer, and I'm not a fan of any team either. Edited by Megabyte - 05 April 2012 at 03:06 |
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cara0910
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@megabyte
Yes, it was my choice to go to Brazil, what a mistake! That's why I left. Btw, you can do the same. Plenty of other countries to pick from! |
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Megabyte
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Except I have no money to move to another country. Plus, I would miss my family. It's precisely because I'm not very social I love them so much, even if I can't show it well. Edited by Megabyte - 05 April 2012 at 03:09 |
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tamte
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Joined: 20 March 2011 Location: Brazil Online Status: Offline Posts: 342 |
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Don't call it soccer, it is football, I have never heard any Brazilian used the term "soccer". If you do that, you are trying to be "so American".
"Blending in" is losing your own identity, if that is needed to be friends with Brazilians, suck it.
I don't need Brazilian friends who require me to be like them? If you are a criminal I understand you have a need to "blend in".
I speak fluent Portuguese, I'm paying taxes (a lot, more than these loacals earn in their lifetime) here, that's enough "blending" for me.
Maybe I learned that in South Texas, there you did not want to be "amigos" with the local hispanics, you needed to treat them like dogs, the only way to gain respect there. Otherwise you got fooled, your stuff stolen etc.
And the person who prefer to accept US families (for whatever) is understandable. I'm renting apartments as my side hobby. I prefer foreigners too. For some reason foreigners are more honest and pay in time and don't s*it the place when they leave.
Brazilians always have some reason not to pay in time, they don't care, when it is not their property. They also try avoid the whole thing every month, you need to hunt them down.
I have thrown out few families, as they were not be able to respect the neighbours! Throwing trash everywhere, come on? Once PM was needed, they helped me out, no problem (did not have to even pay them!) or did not have to "blend in". If I should accept Brazilian family as a tenant today, it is definately a "non-kid family", a working couple.
I have never had a problem being a gringo here.
My wifes family respects me as I'm not giving them any money, told this from day one. Her mother is the worse, but she is learning after 10 years of preaching. We have forced the rest to find jobs or study and live their independed lives. Nobody gets any free rides.
Looks good now, only few resisting, but that's not really our problem, I just wanted them out of our shoulders. Her father understands it and we get along very well. My wifes one sister is causing some issues as she (living abroad) still gives money to these "blood suckers", trying to destroy what we have achieved here. Her husband is 100% at same line as me and I'm sure one day that lady understands it too.
If I need some work to do I can pay them to do it (if they have a clue how do it). Requires full supervision of course as anything you want somebody to do here. There's hardly any real local professionals around.
I'm used to quality workmanship what ever it is, this is the hard apart in Brazil as almost everything sucks bad in quality (even the football today). And I do not have a need to blend into this "degeneração" around.
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life's too short to be living without you, babe.
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Ramon
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Joined: 21 March 2012 Online Status: Offline Posts: 112 |
![]() Posted: 05 April 2012 at 13:15 |
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VERY TRUE .
some brazilians , and some folks here use the word ugly american often . i believe user sven likes this offensive word . well , have you been to SOUTH FLORIDA ? have you seen the way ALL latin nationality immigrants treat born americans ? we are treated like 2nd class citizens . many brazilians living in pompano beach never utter one word of english , have no desire to learn english . it's all over palm beach , broward and miami dade counties . VERY FEW BRZILIANS IN USA ASSIMULATE WITH americans. can u imagine walking around rio with this attitude ? yes , you would be torn apart by a pack of wild favela kids , then burned alive .
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Ramon
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Joined: 21 March 2012 Online Status: Offline Posts: 112 |
![]() Posted: 05 April 2012 at 13:22 |
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well , another usa basher monger . have u lived in usa ? for how long ? mexicans make up almost 1/2 population in california . they are valued . problem is , they have many babies , they dont care about communities . do you know van nuys california ? now imagine van nuys in rio , all americans ... CAN U IMAGINE ? I BET THE CITY BOMBED BY BRASILIANS .
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