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Quote Gringo.Floripa Replybullet Posted: 24 January 2011 at 16:16
Originally posted by Grantham

Ok, what our government does outside our borders may be part of our culture, but itīs not a part of our overall culture. Americans arenīt all the same. The people who elected Bush were Republicans....

....For one, it is not part of my culture what is happening in Iraq. I am totally against it. You can blame the conservative southern Republicans for this. But this is not a part of all of Americaīs culture. On this issue, you can clearly divide America into two parts: liberal and conservative. But you canīt blame all Americans for this. The Democrats had no part in this, and Iīm a democrat.



I'm with Grantham, sort of.  But you need to understand, when images are broadcast on television, around the world, of American forces invading other nations, of buildings exploding, and women and children being killed by these explosions (their deaths labeled by the sanitary term "collateral damage"), of atrocities committed at places like Abu Ghraib, etc, etc, there are no closed captions on the tv screen indicating who's Red and who's Blue, who voted for Bush, who didn't.  True, not ALL Americans embrace, much less support the war, nonetheless, the war continues.  Why???

You have a rude awakening coming to you my friend.  The democracy you think you might have a participatory role in has essentially morphed into a well-crafted illusion.  The powers-that-be learned from Vietnam, that the control of information, especially images, which have a much greater impact than words, is essential to keeping the public from rising up in effectual protest.  Why do you think it was FORBIDDEN for the media to broadcast or publish photos of caskets returning with soldiers killed in Iraq?!?  Images of "the enemy" being slaughtered are fine, it appeals to a base (ugly) human trait, but they dare not show your neighbor's son being shipped home in pine box.  Moral indignation just might get up off the sofa, and DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT...!

I'd like to recommend for you to read On Civil Disobedience  by Henry David Thoreau.

Now to change the subject.  How do you like your new school?  What classes are you taking this semester?



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Quote DUNGA Replybullet Posted: 24 January 2011 at 19:06
I think you guys are confusing what most people recognize as popular American culture, ie. music, fashion, food, entertainment with American foreign policy. Most of the world has a love hate relationship with American culture, the former, because it is somewhat overpowering and suffocating. Here in Brazil you have to dig under the current hybrid pop culture to find what's left of traditional Brazilian culture, and when you do it is often in the form of a tourist attraction, treated like an endangered species.
Ranting about American foreign policy is a political exercise popular all over the world, and in the US as well, as great numbers of people there do not support it. But on this forum about life in Brazil it just sounds like so much self-indulgence and auto-stimulation.
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Quote Gringo.Floripa Replybullet Posted: 24 January 2011 at 19:34
Originally posted by DUNGA

Ranting about American foreign policy is a political exercise popular all over the world, and in the US as well, as great numbers of people there do not support it. But on this forum about life in Brazil it just sounds like so much self-indulgence and auto-stimulation.


You're absolutely correct Dunga!  Yet name me one forum topic on this site that does not get off track, sometimes, off on several diverse tangents at once.

The recent comments about "Why the low self-esteem" have nothing to do with the subject.  Yet since the original poster of this thread (Grantham) has headed in this direction, well....

But briefly back to the "auto-stimulation".... aiii, que gostoso!  Wink
This time around, with the Internet (youtube, twitter, FB, blogs, etc) as a player in addition to the mainstream media, the boundaries between "pop culture" and foreign policy are VERY blurred.  Personally, I consider Sarah Palin a (clownish) figure of pop culture.  Yet she has some significant weight in politics.  And God help us all if she one day has the position to decide foreign policy!

Whether we like it or not, whether we are prepared for it, or not, it's a new world, or as some would like to coax us to, a new world order... (of?)
Is it Pop or Politics?  The distinction is often no longer able to be discerned.

EDIT: Obama's pop-ularity was precisely because he tapped into pop culture.

EDIT: Is this pop culture, or foreign policy?
"The story of an Arabic extremist who is used as a pawn by the Russian ultra-nationalists and the Marines and SAS that try to save the world from nuclear annihilation"
Modern Warfare

So back to Brasil Dunga, do YOU think Brasilians suffer from low self-esteem?  If so, why?  If not, why?



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Quote Esprit Replybullet Posted: 24 January 2011 at 20:01

One imagines that such low self-esteem might be limited to the educated and well travelled Brazilian who, paradoxically, should not feel that way.

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Quote Gringo.Floripa Replybullet Posted: 25 January 2011 at 06:51
You might be quite right Esprit.  In Jardims, or the Zona Sul, they're the top dog, the biggest fish in their sea.  But when they arrive in say NYC, London, Paris, they realize there are not only lots of other big fish just like them, but fish MUCH BIGGER!
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Quote Steven Replybullet Posted: 25 January 2011 at 08:47
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You might be quite right Esprit.  In Jardims, or the Zona Sul, they're the top dog, the biggest fish in their sea.  But when they arrive in say NYC, London, Paris, they realize there are not only lots of other big fish just like them, but fish MUCH BIGGER!
 
I disagree.  I make the trip between SP and NYC pretty often and the big Brazilian fish who sit in the front of the airplane have no inferiority complex problems.  These guys move and shake with the best of them.  Fluency in the language makes all the difference.
 
One caveat - I have a cunhado who is very successful in SP but speaks very little English.  I have to admit that he's a different man when he's in the U.S.   Much more timid.  Again, I think it's a language thing that affects us all when we are in another country.
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Quote Esprit Replybullet Posted: 25 January 2011 at 09:07

Let’s not get carried away and concentrate on the top 1%, yet even if we do, I strongly suspect that this group have their moments of toe curling embarrassment when forced into a discussion about the severe contrast in Brazilian demographics, education, infrastructure and law & order. Imagine the embarrassment of a beautiful red rose growing out of a cow pat. Ermm

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Quote sven Replybullet Posted: 25 January 2011 at 09:34
Originally posted by Esprit

Imagine the embarrassment of a beautiful red rose growing out of a cow pat. Ermm



Wouldn't she grow much better due to the cow dung?

Originally posted by Grantham

In the three years I have lived here, I find that most Brazilians have very low self-esteem when it comes to certain areas of their lives. Most believe they canīt do anything to stop the violent crime, the drug trade, the political corruption, and many other problems they face everyday. They seem to take it, and swallow it, as if somehow they deserve it and donīt deserve anything better.


Back to the OP. We have to remember the OP is 18 and fresh out of diapers (high school). We all feel we are ready to change the world fresh out of highschool. Worse even fresh out of University. We feel we're ready to change the world. Some of us will start to work for Amnesty or Greenpeace, others move to brasil and yet others will follow the dream of the white picket fence house in the burbs with 2.3 kids.

At some time in our lives, most of us (those that aren't Donald Trumps, Eike Battistas, Osamas or Obamas) realize that all those ideals are bogus and we can't change anything. Hell, even our vote gets lost in the hundereds of thousands of others and doesn't really affect things. Governments come and go, but almost nothing really changes.

Most Brazilians come to this conclusion much sooner than other westerners. In western countries things happen more "hidden" than in Brazil where sh*t happens "in your face". It's not low self esteem, it's just that they learned quicker than we.
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Quote sven Replybullet Posted: 25 January 2011 at 09:37
Originally posted by Dom Pedro

My country doesnīt even exist anymore. So what?


It had children and is now a family of countries
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Quote sven Replybullet Posted: 25 January 2011 at 09:40
Originally posted by Dom Pedro

Or you have two cultures, which are like US morals - one for home use and one for export?



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