December 6, 2007
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Oi, Since arriving in Brazil I have noticed that girls and woman, many ages, seem to be hanging on and touching other girls all the time, rubbing and holding hands, Etc. Can you explain this as I feel it’s probably not a sexual thing as it’s on public display.
You probably are not here too long, are you?
Yes, Brazilians do kiss and hug more than others (let’s forget about the
Italians) and it is ok to kiss a girlfriend, and hug. Rubbing and holding hands I’d say is more common when you’re 16… under 18! At this point Women usually prefer holding a boyfriend instead.
I’ve been in Ibirapuera park today (São Paulo) and I’ve seen some rubbing hands myself. There were also teenagers, Jim, but in that case I guess they were making out… It’s kind of a trend among them now.
Welcome to Brazil, Jim, I hope I could help.
Vanessa T. Bauer
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